Showing posts with label caregiving devotional. Show all posts
Showing posts with label caregiving devotional. Show all posts

Monday, March 16, 2020

God's Rest for Uncertain Days


The recent COVID-19 pandemic has now blown America from complacency into full-blown panic. At special risk are senior citizens and those with medical conditions that compromise their immunity.

Like many caregiving families, we have struggled to keep ourselves and loved ones safe without giving in to the fear. Our household consists of a vulnerable adult who is being cared for by two at-risk seniors. We recognized the risks early on and quickly ensured that we were as ready as possible for a serious outbreak of this virus.

No, we didn't hoard toilet paper.

Yes, we bought the proper medical supplies and household needs for a few weeks of possible isolation. We already had most of this in place before the crisis hit.

At this time, we are instituting our own policy of social isolation that we will evaluate on a week-by-week basis until the course of the virus appears to be waning. We use stringent infection control measures in our home. We've done all we can for now.

Still, the uncertainty has cast a pall upon our home as the seriousness of this pandemic is commanding the airwaves. We worry about our loved ones around the country. Our beloved granddaughter is facing the very real possibility of having to postpone her much-anticipated wedding. From serious illness to financial strain to personal loss, people are experiencing trials on many levels.

In the midst of anxiety, there is one place we can run.

When I read this Psalm, the image that comes to my mind is that of a hen sheltering her chicks under her wings. I remember fondly the little banty hens we had when I was growing up. The chicks always knew to run to their mamas if they were threatened. The hens spread their wings over their babies and pecked anyone who got near. There was something so comforting in watching the little ones sleeping under their mothers' wings.

In some Bible versions, the word abide in verse one is translated as "rest." When trouble descends upon us, we can rest in God's shelter. It's supposed to be the place we live. God is strong and mighty and a loving Father. He is our deliverer and the keeper of our souls.

So as we live out a long, hard winter, we can do two things:
Exercise infection control  
Live in rest.


PSALM 91
He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High
Will abide in the shadow of the Almighty.

2 I will say to the Lord, “My refuge and my fortress,
My God, in whom I trust!”

3 For it is He who delivers you from the snare of the trapper
And from the deadly pestilence.

4 He will cover you with His pinions,
And under His wings you may seek refuge;
His faithfulness is a shield and bulwark.
5 You will not be afraid of the terror by night,
Or of the arrow that flies by day;

6 Of the pestilence that stalks in darkness,
Or of the destruction that lays waste at noon.

7 A thousand may fall at your side
And ten thousand at your right hand,
But it shall not approach you.

8 You will only look on with your eyes
And see the recompense of the wicked.

9 For you have made the Lord, my refuge,
Even the Most High, your dwelling place.

10 No evil will befall you,
Nor will any plague come near your [c]tent.
11 For He will give His angels charge concerning you,
To guard you in all your ways.

12 They will bear you up in their hands,
That you do not strike your foot against a stone.

13 You will tread upon the lion and cobra,
The young lion and the serpent you will trample down.
14 “Because he has loved Me, therefore I will deliver him;
I will set him securely on high, because he has known My name.

15 “He will call upon Me, and I will answer him;
I will be with him in trouble;
I will rescue him and honor him.

16 “With a long life I will satisfy him
And let him see My salvation.”

Thursday, October 13, 2016

Leaving the Shadowlands Behind




When our son Kevin was injured in a fall nearly two decades ago in another country, all I cared about was keeping him alive and getting him home. Once his condition stabilized, he was flown to a hospital in the States. We nearly lost him twice in the ensuing days. Eventually he again stabilized enough to be transferred to a rehabilitation hospital. The staff there told us what to expect when he came home and prepared us to deal with his extensive medical needs.

Learning to cope with the emotional and spiritual cost was more difficult. We struggled through long seasons of despair and loss as we cared for Kevin year after year. We slowly learned to surrender our dreams in exchange for God's plans. We eventually moved from denial to grief to acceptance.

Finding joy was a surprise.

Everyone told us caring for him would be impossible. No one told us that caring for him would bring us joy. In the years since his injury, we have learned much about courage in the process. Kevin has fought for his faith as valiantly as he fought for his life. He built a 3-D graphics studio with his brother and founded a popular Christian music website. He lives each day with trust and without complaint.

Certainly these years have been hard. But when I see Kevin laughing as he races us in his wheelchair on a seaside boardwalk, taking his dog for a stroll, working with press agents and music companies and recording artists, or rolling down the aisle to be his brother's best man, I am reminded of all the beauty no one told me to expect.

Today, if you're a mom or dad or grandparent or spouse to someone who needs a caregiver, I want you to know this:

Caring for others is the most important job you will ever have.


The life of another human being is in your hands. Your work is important, unseen, and sacrificial. Your dreams for tomorrow have been set aside for the realities of today. You endure incredible daily stresses, often alone. Sometimes it feels like no one cares for you, and it would be easy to let the night fall on your faith.

But you can leave the shadowlands behind, because Someone does care for you.

There is no place so dark that God can't find us. 


I know, because I've been there. But He wouldn't let me stay in the shadows. Thank God for giving me renewed hope and light for the journey! May He grant you light and joy for yours.


Monday, September 15, 2014

25 Helpful Books For Caregivers


A Long and Winding Road: A Caregiver's Tale of Life, Love and Chaos by Linda Brendle


Ambushed by Grace: Help and Hope on the Caregiving Journey by Shelly Beach


Strength for the Moment: Inspiration for Caregivers by Lori Hogan


Not Alone: Encouragement for Caregivers by Nell Noonan


Out from the Shadows: 31 Devotions for the Weary Caregiver by Pam Thorson




Daily Comfort for Caregivers by Barbour Publishing




Transitions, Trust, and Triumph: A Daily Devotional for Caregivers by Jean D. Moody-Williams


Strength to the End: A Caregiver's Journey by Lucy P. Carter


Twice Blessed: Encouragement for the Caregiver and the Carereceiver by Laura Sowers


Help for the Caregiver: Facing the Challenges with Understanding and Strength by Michael R. Emlet


Hope for the Caregiver: Encouraging Words To Strengthen Your Spirit by Peter Rosenberger


Caregivers' Devotions to Go by Gigi Devine Murfitt


Blessings & Prayers for Caregivers: A Devotional Companion by Annetta Dellinger and Karen Boerger


Soul Care for Caregivers: How to Help Yourself While Helping Others by Susanne West


Finding Your Way: A Spiritual GPS for Caregivers by Sandy Lovern


Song in the Night: One Family's Journey From Darkness To Dawn by Pamela Thorson


Chicken Soup for the Soul: Family Caregivers: 101 Stories of Love, Sacrifice, and Bonding by Joan Lunden and Amy Newmark


124 Prayers for Caregivers by Joan Guntzelman


Devotions for Caregivers: A Month's Supply of Prayer by Marilyn Driscoll


A Caregiver? Me? by Lynda Bush


Strength & Courage for Caregivers: 30 Hope-Filled Morning and Evening Reflections by Terry Hargrave


The Hope of Glory: A Devotional Guide for Older Adults by Nancy Parker Brummett


At the Heart of the Matter: A Spiritual Journey for Caregivers by Dr. Eboni Ivory Green

Monday, August 25, 2014

14 Quotes For Caregivers: Part 1

"Caregiving is not gray, unless we have allowed our hearts to let go of hope."

"No place is so dark, no shadow so deep, that God can't find us."

"Caregivers live in the daily shadows of death, countless duties, and shattered dreams. But they don't have to exist in the shadows of their faith."

"Forgiveness is a strange kind of walled garden - exceedingly ugly as we approach it, but breathtakingly beautiful once we've stepped inside."

"Not one to be impressed with or put off by outward appearances, God sees us as we truly are."

"Run in the direction you're driven."

"In the stillness of night, when the life of one man depends upon the sacrifice of another, nothing speaks louder than loyalty."


Next Week // 14 Quotes For Caregivers: Part 2.

Photos by Grace Thorson. Quotes by Pam Thorson (Out from the Shadows: 31 Devotions for the Weary Caregiver. Available on Amazon.com in both Paperback and Kindle format.) Ask for a signed copy here.

Monday, May 19, 2014

What Is an "Informal Caregiver"?

Until I read Howard Gleckman's great post entitled "Informal Caregiving? Free Caregiving? Seriously?" on http://www.forbes.com, I had never heard of the term "informal caregiver." In fact, since my first baptism into caregiving with my invalid mother years ago, I have had a healthy respect for the job. In my seventeen years of caring for a disabled son, I would never have put the word caregiving together with a word as colorless as "informal."

Informal is what you wear to work on Fridays. It's sneakers and dirty jeans and hamburgers.

Informal is for when you don't care enough to give your very best.

The caregivers I know are anything but colorless. They are people capable of great devotion. Their daily lives include sacrifices that would make lesser beings tremble. They have dark days, to be sure, but the intensity of their sense of purpose and dedication can light up the room.

They feel deeply and love well. They also fall and doubt. Life for them is a roller coaster of thrills and chills.

Good, bad, and ugly, yes. But informal? Not hardly.